LESSON
Overcoming Stagnation Stories
Welcome to Part 1 of The Unlocked Motivation! In this lesson, we’re diving deep into what I call “stagnation stories.” These are the unconscious narratives that play in our minds, holding us back from making the moves we say we want to make. We all experience these blocks at some point, but by identifying and understanding them, we can begin to clear the path to our goals.
Understanding Stagnation Stories
Stagnation stories often operate under the radar—they’re unconscious. That’s why this lesson focuses on the Moon, which in astrology represents our unconscious motivations. The Moon governs what makes us feel secure or insecure, and these feelings directly impact our motivation.
To illustrate, think of the Sun as your battery bank—it powers you up. The Moon, on the other hand, is like the cables that direct that energy to different parts of your life. If those cables are faulty, even if your battery is full, the energy won’t get to where it needs to go. In other words, your motivation will stall if your Moon sign isn’t aligned or if you’re not addressing the unconscious stories it represents.
Insecurity as the root of lack of motivation
When we feel unmotivated, it’s often because we’re insecure or fearful. We doubt ourselves and worry that we won’t be able to take care of ourselves. This triggers protective mechanisms that stop us from moving forward. For example, Cancer, which is ruled by the Moon, is known for reacting strongly and then retreating to care for itself. This is a perfect illustration of how insecurity can cause us to withdraw instead of advancing toward our goals.
Bringing the Unconscious to Light
Stagnation stories are the mental narratives we tell ourselves that fuel our insecurities. Many of us might say, “I feel overwhelmed,” “I don’t want to,” or “I’ll start next week.” But beneath these surface-level thoughts are deeper, unconscious stories that are sabotaging our motivation.
For instance, you might be thinking about launching a new product, but deep down, you’re worried about what will happen if someone asks for a refund and you can’t afford it, or if you get publicly criticized. These stories might not be at the forefront of your mind, but they’re running in the background, influencing your behavior.
The Power of Awareness
Once you start recognizing these stagnation stories, everything changes. By bringing these unconscious thoughts to light, you can interrupt the patterns and regain control over your motivation. When you feel insecure, the only way to move forward is by addressing that insecurity directly.
Your Moon Sign as a Guide
Your Moon sign reveals the patterns and stories that emerge when you’re off balance. It shows you what triggers your insecurities and how those triggers affect your motivation. By understanding your Moon sign, you can start to recognize these patterns sooner and take steps to address them.
Practical Application
The real power of these insights lies in their application. It’s one thing to learn about your stagnation stories, but it’s another to actively work on interrupting them. That’s why it’s crucial to engage with your workbook throughout this course. Write down your stories, put them in your own words, and revisit them whenever you’re starting something new—whether it’s launching a project, creating content, or engaging with clients.
Setting “smoke alarms” for your stagnation stories is a great way to stay on track. These are little alerts that remind you when you’re about to fall into old patterns so that you can choose a different response. It’s not just about having cool information—it’s about using that information to create real change in your life.
The Path to Embodied Wisdom
Embodied wisdom means taking what you’ve learned and applying it to your life. It’s not enough to just understand your stagnation stories; you need to change your responses to them. This is where the magic happens—when you start recognizing these stories in real-time and choosing new, empowering thoughts instead.
One effective practice is to take three to five minutes and write down all the negative thoughts you’re having. Then, flip them into positives. For example, if you’re worried that no one will buy your offer, write down, “What if everyone loves it? What if this is exactly what my audience has been waiting for?”
Next Steps
Now it’s time to take action. Read the section related to your Moon sign and complete the stagnation stories exercise in your workbook. Let me know that you’re here, that you’re doing the work, and that you’re committed to staying motivated. This course is designed to be quick, but the impact it can have is profound if you fully engage with it.
Clarity as a source of Motivation
One of the things that really supports motivation is having a clear plan and feeling secure in what you’re doing. This is where The Chosen Path comes in. In that course, we go much deeper into creating a solid foundation for your business using your birth chart.
We cover everything from your brand, your ideal client, your money blocks, and content creation, to launching and selling—all based on your astrological chart. The Chosen Path provides you with the tools and knowledge to build a business that feels aligned and authentic, ensuring that you stay motivated and on track.
The insights from The Chosen Path help you feel more secure because you’ll know exactly who you’re talking to, what you’re offering, and how to structure your business in a way that supports your unique energy. This level of clarity is a game-changer for your motivation because it removes the guesswork and allows you to confidently move forward.
So, if the topics we’re covering here excite you and you want to go even deeper, The Chosen Path is the next step.
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“I’ll act when everything is perfectly in place.“ Time to flip it! 🔥 🔥 🔥
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So powerful! As a Libra moon this really resonates with me – especially the thought 'What if this isn't the best action' so for me I am going to flip it by saying to myself 'Just take the first step. There is clarity in action. Let's just explore and play without attachment to the outcome.'
🥺❤️🔥 progress is more important than perfection
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"In the past, I have sought validation through perfection"… ooooof. Thank you for helping me recognize this and supporting me with tools to let this story go.
Feeling personally attacked by my own reflection 🙃🤸♀️🔥
Wow! 🔥Mind totally blown!
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Ok So I keep getting stuck on the SMOKE ALARMS IN THE Journal. I am a Sagittarius Moon and I am here for the “I don’t want to be tied down.”and “This isn’t as fun as I thought it would be.” but I am having a hard time with the journal questions like new affirmations:
MAKE YOUR OWN AFFIRMATIONS, WHAT WOULD YOU BE LIT UP TO HEAR FROM CLIENTS AND OTHERS IF YOU DIDN’T BELIEVE THOSE STORIES ABOUT YOURSELF?
GO GRAB A STICKY NOTE OR PIECE OF PAPER, ON ONE SIDE WRITE “SMOKE ALARMS FOR MOTIVATION” AND PUT YOUR FEARS AND DOUBTS THAT LEAD TO STAGNATION IN YOUR OWN WORDS
ON THE OTHER SIDE, WRITE ONE ACTION YOU CAN TAKE TO MAKE YOURSELF FEEL MORE SECURE/REASSURED WHEN YOU FEEL THAT TO BRING BACK THE MOTIVATION…****
These Questions are stalling me. I think maybe because my design is to also not be in the same place all the time. I have tried to build my business design to work from anywhere and with anyone in an online model. However, I haven't got that fully down yet. I know this was the biggest hold on me moving forward with my crystal business. I decided it tied me to one location too often or unable to travel it as well as I originally thought. HELP PLEASE…. What am I missing or over thinking?
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